I decided I'd like to do a series of short interviews of some of the bloggers I admire most, and brave Dana Rudolph of Mombian stepped up, willing to be the first, as she often does.
Dana started Mombian nearly 3 years ago. She and her partner Helen have a four-year-old son and two cats. Her interests (besides her family) include history, fencing, taekwondo, rock climbing, and the Red Sox.
RR: Tell us a bit about your background.
DR: I have over a decade of experience in the online industry, at both the
startup and corporate levels. Most recently, I was a vice president at
Merrill Lynch, developing marketing and business strategies for several
key online initiatives. I was also the first leader of the firm's
global LGBT employee network. Prior to the business world, I was on an
academic track, doing graduate work towards a career as a medieval
historian. (No, I didn't dress up as someone from the Middle Ages; I
dressed in jeans and spent time in stuffy old libraries.) In some ways,
however, blogging combines my previous disparate endeavors: I get to
write and do research like an academic, while marketing and maintaining
my Web site.
RR: When you first started MOMBIAN what was your
mission and how has it changed over time? What do you hope to deliver
to your audience?
DR: From the start, I knew I didn't want to
write a diary-type blog. There were already many good ones like that,
and I didn't think my own family life was interesting enough to keep
people coming back. (My writing 
background, a mix of marketing and
academia, may also have influenced this choice. See next question.) I
also noticed that most of the existing parenting sites didn't often
include lesbians, and most of the lesbian sites didn't often include
parents. I therefore decided to make Mombian a site for news and
information of interest to lesbian moms and other LGBT parents.
I think that mission has pretty much stayed the same. I hope to
deliver posts that are both informative and entertaining, that look at
LGBT news and culture with a parent's eye, and at parenting topics with
an LGBT eye. I cover everything from politics to entertainment—but I'm
not trying to cover all politics, like, say, PageOneQ, or all entertainment, like After Ellen.
I want to extract what's of interest to parents and try to make
connections that others may have missed. Of course, since I'm the
publisher, I sometimes break my own rules and post about something
random that catches my attention, but I try to keep it to a minimum.
RR: How does blogging compared to other types of writing you've done in the past?
DR: The
closest predecessor to my blogging was a weekly update I used to
compile at Merrill Lynch, summarizing news in online financial
services. It went out by e-mail to over 150 executives at the firm, and
was similar in style to the Weekly Political Roundup I do on Mombian.
Some of the marketing material I used to write has helped me in
promoting my site, but not in creating the actual posts. Likewise, my
academic work gave me a foundation for some of my longer pieces that
require research, but they are not a perfect analogy. Blog posts have
to be shorter and punchier, more like newspaper articles than research
papers.
RR: What has been the high point of blogging for you, so far?
DR: The constant high point is the number of friendly and interesting
people I've met—bloggers, commenters, and others who have reached out
to connect in some way. I'm also proud of the growing success of
Blogging for LGBT Families Day, which had over 150 participants last
June. The diversity of people and experiences always amazes me. (It
will be held again this year on June 2.)
RR: What's the strangest thing that's happened to you since you became a parent?
DR: Becoming
a parent was pretty strange in itself. I'm one of those for whom the
parenting urge came late; I wasn't against it when I was younger, but
it wasn't a burning priority for me as it is for some people.
It's also been very strange being the stay-at-home mom. Both my
partner Helen and I have done stints as the SAHM. She gave birth to our
son (using my egg and donor sperm), and started out at home, but some
changes at the company I worked for led us both to throw our resumes
into the ring. She got the better offer, and so we switched roles.
We'll probably stick it out this way now until our son is older; going
back and forth too much probably wouldn't be good for him. It wasn't
something I was expecting, though, even when we started on the road to
parenthood. Not that I'm complaining; as I tell Helen, my boss is a lot
cuter than hers.
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