the OTHER mother

Greetings from Arkansas

We're here for Passover.  Here's a photo of Garvin Gardens taken by my father.

Last Week in the Big Easy

Last week I got to attend a nonprofit technology conference in New Orleans. The sessions were excellent and got my "inner geek" all revved up.  During the breaks, I roamed around the French Quarter taking pictures like a tourist.

Like a tourist? Yes, I used to live in New Orleans in the 80s.  My mom used to live there before I was born.  The third photo is Lafitte's Blacksmith Shop (now a bar), where she and my Dad had their first date.  I figured you'd want to know.

PLAY Power

Carrie has had pneumonia (again!) all week, and she refuses to take her antibiotics.  She is improving, according to Dr. Alex, but it's been a long week. We've watched too much television in Grrrlville.
Nevertheless I've been exciting to hear and read these great news stories about the power of creative play. 

Free MoMA for Two Mamas

MoMA, originally uploaded by :nacho:.

One of the fine moments of my trip to NYC was meeting Annie at the MoMa.  It was great to catch up with our friend.  And then (cherry on top) the museum was free that day. Now that was cool.

Question of the Day: Road

Road, originally uploaded by JuliusTheCat via flickr

What are some places you'd love to visit some day? (Assume that money is not an obstacle.)

Return of the T-Rex

Today we saw dinosaurs at a museum here in San Diego.

Shish!

Greetings from the Birch Aquarium in La Jolla, CA.

Photos by Sean Claudio Mancillas and Scripps Oceanography via flickr

Bird Rock Coffee

Good morning from San Diego, CA.  Mmmmmmm.

Lucky 13: Places I've Been

'Tis the season for making lists.  Here's mine.

1. The Hoh Rain Forest
2. Santa Monica Pier
3. Isla Mujeres (The Island of Women), Mexico
4. San Gimignano, Italy
5. The Chelsea Hotel, NYC
6. Farnsworth Art Museum, Portland, Maine
7. The Hamburg Inn, Iowa City
8. Vancouver Folk Music Festival
9. Bald Knob, Arkansas
10. Parc Guell, Barcelona, Spain
11. The Beer Can House, Houston, Texas
12. Graceland, Memphis, Tennessee
13. 24 Hour Church of Elvis, Portland, Oregon

I got this meme from Smiler.  You can do it too!

Pearl Loves to Move It Move It

This past weekend we went to the annual Lights in the Heights celebration in our neighborhood. They close off three streets so that only pedestrians, red wagons, roller bladers, and baby strollers have the right of way.  The neighborhood is festooned with the light of candles and electric facsimiles all along the route.  Singers, string quartets, bell choirs, and balalaika societies play from the front porches of the houses.  Houstonians bake 10,000 cookies that are distributed freely.  Lights in the Heights has an old-fashioned spin on fun that I always enjoy.

This year the NIA Moves group had a dance space and welcomed participants to join them. Pearl knows the co-founder Christie from playgroup and yoga, and she had a wonderful time dancing.  At first she ran back and forth in front of the group, but eventually she started to pick a a few of those moves.  Her happiness was luminous.

Miami Beach

I'm at a conference this weekend.  Miami Beach.  Salud!

Rock with Ruthie & Friends

This weekend Ruthie Foster, Mary Cutrofello, and other girl groovers will be rocking at the Houston Women's Festival.  Houston doesn't have events like this very often.  We are excited. We have our tickets. We are ready. Please meet us there.

(Mary Cutrofello photo credit: Marina Chavez)

Sick Day (Spelunking 101)

I stayed home today because I seem to have a sinus infection.  It's the first one I've had since I converted to this nearly-vegan eating plan in July.  Usually I get these infections every 4-6 weeks so this 4 month span is an improvement, I guess. 

Today I spent many hours lying in bed thinking or was I dreaming or hallucinating?  Do you know that feeling?  It's like you're traveling in the unmapped caves of your own brain. I wish I'd brought a flashlight.

Houston Cool 5

Another truly marvelous thing about Houston is that we have great Vietnamese restaurants. That might surprise you, but Houston has one of the largest Vietnamese communities in the United States. 

My favorites restaurants are Van Loc and Kim Son, and they serve up authentic dishes. For a funky twist on Vietnamese cooking, Jenny's Noodle House is always fun.

Click here to review the previous Houston Cool posts.

When in Roma

Here's one of my habits.  I wonder if it's weird or if others share it.  When I'm traveling, I always like to read books set in or about the places I visit.

Nearly a dozen years ago I spent a month traveling around Italy with my friend Amy.  We both read the book Italian Days by Barbara Grizzuti Harrison, passing it back and forth as we burned holes in our rail passes. Because Amy and I are both writers, we are pretty clear, usually, about the craft of writing, i.e. the difference between the narrator of the book and the person who wrote it.  Nevertheless, by the end of the trip, it felt a bit like three of us were touring.  We'd say things like, I agree with Barbara's comments about Venetian architecture, but I think your description of the squid cooked in its own ink captures what I experienced.

For me, reading literature is an experience that deepens my sense of the place. 

On the trip to Los Angeles this past week, I read Ask the Dusk by John Fante. It's a novel that had a big impact on the beat generation.  As far as I know, it doesn't have a big following in literary circles.  I didn't realize it until I starting searching for an image for this post, but apparently it was made into a movie last year. The stars are Salma Hayek, Colin Farrel, and Donald Sutherland.  Did you happen to see it? It seems to have received only so-so ratings.  The book leaves you ragged.  I'm not totally sure why I liked it even.  The racism of the characters is disturbing. But something about it was good.  Maybe it's that I have a weakness for books about writers.

I also read some nonfiction: City of Quartz by Mike Davis and Washed Up by Skye Moody. Both books have a curious tone to them, but I think once I started reading fiction, I really wanted more, more, more of the same.

Your turn, dear reader.

About our Vacation

We loved the week we spent in Los Angeles.  We have so many relatives and friends there that our social plans took precedence over any tourist aspirations we may have been hiding.

Pearl said the highlight of the trip was playing with her cousins.  We spent much of our time with Sharon, Jess, Maya, and Jack.  They moved to Santa Monica in February.  We also got to hang out with Mieke and the gang from Kid Squared, as well as Shannon, Stuart and Herb, Charlie, Ethan, Ruth, and Jane. There were a lot of folks on our list so we skipped the museums and theme parks and had some fun. 

While in California, we made a valiant effort to test-play a myriad of parks in the area.  We built sand castles on the beach. We ate meals and sang songs. We went to lots of farmer's markets.  There was a parade and a party, a cafe and a kosher deli. 

As you may have noticed in the photo album, Carrie got into mischief resulting in numerous bangs and bruises. Cousin Jack is nearly certified as a baby "stunt man," and I guess Carrie felt compelled to keep up with him.  And she did.

Now, Voyagers

My parents left for Europe this week. At ages 77 and 83, they are getting older.  My mom was extremely anxious about the trip. In fact, she cried during our last few phone conversations before she left.  I don't remember her being so upset since her chemo and radiation days.  She knew her fears were irrational, but she couldn't control them.  It happens. When my mother gets upset, I get upset, and I've had one everlasting headache that's spanned the entire week.

It's been several days since they left the country.  I'm assuming that no news is good news and that they are settling in to their travel rhythm. They are going on a cruise, but it's a small river boat with fewer than 200 passengers.  This way they get to visit several cities and countries, but they only have to unpack once.

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Tonight Marcia went to our friend Katherine's reading at Brazos. Her first book came out this week, and it's supposed to be a hoot.  I'm looking forward to reading it. Marcia said she hasn't seen such a big crowd at the bookstore since Anne Rice came to Houston ten years ago.  I'm glad she got such a huge turnout. 

When I put the girls to bed, Carrie zonked out immediately, but Pearl decided that instead of listening to the lullabies, she would sing them with me, duet style.  It was very sweet.

Greetings from

Denton, Texas.  It's the family reunion, y'all.  The drive went well.  We have a room in a hotel; the hotel has a lobby; the lobby has a computer; the computer has a DSL connection.  So far, so good!

Weekenders

We're driving to Arkansas to visit my family over the Memorial Day weekend.  Preparation for travel has been a major endeavor, as usual.

Pearl woke up last night at 3 a.m. with a high fever. She has strep throat, the doctor says.  Since her appointment, Pearl has told anyone (and I mean ANYONE) who would listen about the injection she received which was not given in her thigh.  That's the news of the day.

Thanks for all your vegetarian support messages, both in the comment section and via email. Seize the day.

Houston Cool 4

Houston hosts the original and biggest (in TX bigger = better) art car parade in the world. I took Pearl and Carrie to see the crazy cars on Saturday afternoon.  Pearl really enjoyed seeing the wacky cars.  Carrie preferred the wonderful people-watching opportunities.  The parade is sponsored each year by The Orange Show.

Houston Cool 3

Here's the Houston skyline, as seen from the middle of a sculpture by Dubuffet, looking up.  I like it.

Georgia

Wednesday I am flying to Atlanta for a conference and will be gone four days. I wonder if you would like Marcia to post something while I'm away?  In her spare time, heh, heh.